I understand that all my kid is doing is eating food, but it seems like such a huge change. She is growing up. Fast. And will grow even faster. I have the boxes and boxes of too-small-clothing to prove it.
I just want to enjoy her as she is. Today.
25 things i want my daughter to know
By Mommy Om
1. Enjoy the innocence of your childhood.
In a world full of superficial values, peer
pressure, and bullying, as well as a pop culture that pushes materialism
and consumerism – you are being leapfrogged through your childhood.
There is a constant pressure for you to grow up way too fast. I mean, when did 5 become the new 10, anyway?
Grow slowly.
2. Smart is the new cool.
Never be ashamed of being smart or nerdy,
having freckles or glasses, or loving science and math. Smart never
goes out of style, it stays with you as you grow, and it will lead you
down the most successful paths.
3. No matter how many times you hear it, “Diamonds are NOT a girl’s best friend.” Friends are invaluable. They are trusting
and loyal. They stick with you through good times and bad, happy or
sad. Some will come and go, but your true friends will be with you
always.
Friends forever, through whatever.
4. Go for it, get dirty! It’s good for you.
Besides the fact that getting dirty actually
does help support your immunity, it’s also a great way to express
creativity! Sculpt, draw, and stomp. Better yet, go “classic” and make
some mud pies.
5. Beat the boys at their own games.
Football, baseball, hockey or golf, never
let anyone tell you that you can’t do something because you’re a girl.
So go ahead, build the tallest tower of legos, kick butt on Xbox, and
bust out your light saber.
Awesome.
6. Be spiritual.
Find the desire to understand the universe
and your place in it. Take the time to notice the earth and all of its
beauty. Give thanks to God.
7. See the world.
Experience new cultures, religions, people, and places. Open your heart and mind to the tremendous benefits of studying and visiting domestic and foreign lands.
Bon Voyage
8. A strong hand shake leaves a lasting impression.
It represents self-confidence and ambition.
A strong hand shake and eye contact exemplifies a mutual respect for
one another and is a sign that you are friendly, trustworthy, and
honest.
9. Choose your role models carefully.
Even though you are only 5, I am so glad that right now you have absolutely no idea who Hannah Montanna is.
10. Read something every single day.
From the Cat in the Hat and Dr. Seuss to
Junie B Jones, reading is exercise for your brain. It expands knowledge
and vocabulary- and lets your imagination run wild.
11. When it comes to wearing make-up, there’s a general rule of thumb that applies – LESS is MORE.
12. When it comes to fashion, shorter does not always
equal better. Fashion trends come and go and not all of it is
fabulous. Half tops and mini skirts are great for an 85 degree day at
the beach or if you’re a Miami Dolphins cheerleader, but not for your
high school yearbook photo.
13. Please, please, please do not allow yourself to become someone else’s property. Why this is trendy, I will never figure out. If you want to make a statement about yourself on clothing, at least let it describe an aspect of who YOU are.
I just don’t get it.
14. Speaking of trends, I hope that by the
time you are allowed to date, guys don’t wear their pants hanging half
way down their ass like they do now. I really feel like this has been
pretty popular for quite some time and I am praying that it finally goes
away by 2022. Also, I will flip my lid if you become this guy’s
property! (see #13)
15. Being an angel should not and does not mean wearing only your bra, underwear, and a set of wings for everyone to see.
16. Since you’re growing up in the
technological age of iPad, iPod, iPhone, and texting, I have to address
the horrendous lack of writing skills being used by today’s youth. This
phenomenon of truant letters may very well be the Death of English (LOL). Bottom line, don’t use text lingo in your thesis.
What does this even say?
17. Speaking of text lingo, verbal slang is just as unprofessional. Reminds me of Alicia Silverstone from Clueless. OMG, ROFL, BFF, TMI, FYI, IDK….As If.
18. Don’t let pop culture define you.
I don’t know why, but today we let pop
culture manipulate our youth and it’s killing them emotionally,
spiritually, and intellectually. From the early on fascination with
princesses, to the ‘need’ for a boyfriend and big boobs, popularity,
teen moms, and all the other garbage being thrown in their face – be
confident going against the grain.
19. Accept yourself for who you are.
You’re one-of-a-kind and that’s what makes
you beautiful. Tall, short, big, small, blonde, brunette, redhead,
white, brown, blue, pink, yellow – we are all DIFFERENT.
20. Mainstream your health.
It’s life’s greatest asset. A positive
approach to health encompasses physical, mental, social, emotional, and
spiritual well being. Healthy lifestyle choices in your youth will help
lay a strong foundation for continued wellness throughout your adult
life. Diet, exercise, stress management, chiropractic, self motivation,
positiveness, and meditation, as well as a number of other approaches
are guaranteed to make a huge impact on your quality of life, health,
and happiness.
21. Have confidence in yourself.
A positive self-image assures power, strength, ability, and value.
It will enable you to conquer your goals and allow you to fearlessly
pursue your biggest dreams.
22. Be a sister. Be a friend. Be a protector.
23. Love with all your heart.
For where there is love there is life. Love
is universal and felt by all living things. So strong is the feeling
of love that it is said it makes the world go round.
24. Never be afraid to laugh at yourself.
Laughter is humbling. It inspires and motivates.
25. Wherever you are in life, you can come home.
I will be here – always.
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